HOW TO BUILD YOUR DREAM AND BE A PARENT TOO
I get so many questions asking if I really believe that one can achieve their dreams while going through the crazy motions of life as a parent. And my response is always… Yes, heck yes! Number one, because you want to teach your kids to never settle and two, because I believe in you. Now it’s time to start believing in yourself and know your worth.
I’m going to break it all down for you but first here is some perspective on dreams…
A dream by definition is something that happens when you are asleep and isn’t real. That definition is exactly why I am not a fan of the word dream. Because the word dream carries with it a stigma of something that you can and will never accomplish.
Well, to that I say bologna (or bull shit… haha… I’m trying to tame my potty mouth as my littles here are at the copy everything mommy and daddy do age)! Anyway… I call BS because I want you to want more than what society has impressed upon us as expected, I want you to live and love your best life ever and the way you do that is by dreaming big. Nothing is off limits. You have the power within you to rewrite the script of your life as much as you want and become the hero of your life story.
Ok, let’s break down how to do this:
A DREAM will always just be wishful thinking until you form a VISION and take ACTION.
The great Tony Robbins once said, “If you talk about it, it’s a dream, if you envision it, it’s possible, but if you schedule it, it’s real.” And he’s so right.
Talking about your dream doesn’t get you any closer to achieving it. You must visualize the road map of how to get there and make a plan. You then simply have to take action to move you forward and make it reality.
I know right now, you’re thinking that is way easier said than done. And you’re right it is. This dream of yours won’t come easy. But that’s why it’s a dream, because dreams are worth it and if it came easy, it wouldn’t be your dream.
So let’s first DEFINE your dream and write it all out in detail. BREAK DOWN exactly the who, what, where, when, why and how with a TIMELINE. And lastly, create a support system in family and friends and make new friends and fellow like-minded dreamers in social media hangouts or at a conference that you can gain inspiration or skills from.
That’s it. Don’t think too hard, just dive in and don’t look back and your dreams will come true!